Random situation:

So I've been i a relationship for a year. Quite solid. A successful guy. Confident, charming, attractive intelligent...

My entire life evolved in the different direction. We live together. He has sole custody of a beautiful 5 year old girl.

Ive become a home maker. Worker in a surf shop for 7 years.. Did my own thing.

My feelings for him changed that.

Two months ago he began inquiring about my feeling on breast augmentation. Had never thought of it. But began to realize it was something he wanted. No pressure. Said it was no big deal...

Then I did it. B...to.. D.

A weird adjustment.

Im happy.

Life is good.

As of late he's begun talking about a butt procedure.

And...

I'm sorta weirded out about it.

Thoughts?

indyjoe · 56-60, M

I personally think you should rethink your relationship with this "wonderful" guy...he may tell you that it is no big deal if you choose not to do this but here are the facts...if it truly was not a big deal to him he would not have "suggested" it to you in the first place. Someone who really loves you also accepts you just the way you are and appreciates what nature has given you.