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Do you ever wish you couldn’t feel?

Like sometimes I wish I didn’t have feelings. I wish I didn’t care so much. I wish I didn’t have morals. I wish I was a ho. Like it would really make life so much easier for me. Ugh oh well🤷‍♀️

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SW-User

I wish I couldn’t feel depressed all the time and sucidal all the time

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@SW-User [c=#4C0073]Yeah, definitely that [/c]

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

Same. Exactly the same. If you had no feelings you wouldn’t be able to feel love though...if you were a hoe it wouldn’t feel special when you made love..

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PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@VioletRayne saying that. I do know a guy who would make me lose my morals if he tried hard enough...

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@PaleandPolluted [c=#4C0073]Noooo don’t do it. It’s a trap.[/c]

froggtongue · M

@PaleandPolluted Sounds like a special guy.

IAmJess

There are lots of feelings I wish, after the fact, that I could erase. But no, I don't wish I had no feelings. I don't think I'd feel alive in that case.

Fernie · F

If and when I see an animal abused or killed or even if I hear a story about it happening I am devastated for days...with humans...not so much. It's my curse and I wish I was not so sensitive to it

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@Fernie [c=#4C0073]i can’t stand any kind of harm to others. I get physically ill if I see a roach killed. A fucking roach😔 I’m such a wimp.[/c]

Fernie · F

@VioletRayne Are you nuts??? YOU are not at ALL a wimp!! You have compassion and respect for all living things. The wimps, the cold hearted wimps are the ones who see a spider waaaay across the room up high in a corner so they leap out of their chair, find something to make a weapon out of, climb up there and smash it...snuffing out a life for no good reason...so there

4meAndyou · F

Many times. When you are deeply hurt or traumatized there are times when your feelings really do shut themselves off, and you do go completely numb. It has happened to me more than once.

bijouxbroussard · F

I’m not sorry about my moral compass, it makes life make sense for me and keeps me grounded. But I sometimes wish I couldn’t feel other things, I wish meanness didn’t bother me so deeply. I wish I had a thicker skin, basically. 😥

Fernie · F

then you would be Donald trump...no one wants that

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@Fernie [c=#4C0073]Talk about a wake up call Fernie😆[/c]

Fernie · F

😆@VioletRayne you're a good sport

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

Nahh.... without the lows, the highs wouldn't be good.

Feelings suck when they are bad... but awesomesauce on the other side.

Day needs night.

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JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

@VioletRayne sometimes, it's a perception thing. When you've been in the dark so long, it's possible that you're afraid of opening your eyes

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@JoeyFoxx [c=#4C0073]Maybe[/c]

JoeyFoxx · 51-55, M

@VioletRayne you need life sunglasses. Perhaps there have been days you haven't recognized.

Primnproper · 56-60, F

Not feeling changes a person over time, they become cold and closed off..feelings remind us we are alive..be proud of who you are..🤗

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VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@Primnproper [c=#4C0073]yeah it does. If you can turn it off at will you can control it.[/c]

Primnproper · 56-60, F

@VioletRayne everyone has their Achilles heel..it's human nature.

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@Primnproper [c=#4C0073]True[/c]

SW-User

pretty often yeah

rckt148 · 61-69, M

no I have come to rely on my compass
But I do wish I could forget
Thats why I used my compass
I have learned I can move on in time
but I never forget

VioletRayne · 31-35, F

@rckt148 [c=#4C0073]Not even just to stop but like be able to turn it on n off[/c]

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@VioletRayne No I have hurt a lot of people
Busted some head and broke hearts ,had my heart broken
But now that I have a standard I live by ,,I make ladies mad saying no
But I don't carry the guilt or end up stuck with someone I don't love for fear of hurting them .
if it never happened ,,I have nothing to regret