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Sperm Donation, why is it right,ethical when the child born does not even get to know his/her biolgical father?

Being a parent i have come to really understand the need and importance of both mother and father. It is unfortunate enough the world is full of kids with both or either due verious circumstances. What i dont understand is the men to go out and donate sperm. I believe it is wrong as knowingly the true identity of that child is taken away. He or she is raised knowingly raised by the strangers.

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SW-User

If you never had a dad, you probably won't care who he is. That's basically something that people with two parents don't seem to get. Also, people who use donated sperm have a partner, usually. So it isn't like it'll make a difference.

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SW-User

@ImDone So? Then she'll be the mom AND the dad. Single mothers do it all the time and their children turn out fine.

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SW-User

@ImDone Ah, I got you. I read what you said wrong.

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aaaabbbb

@ImDone which is selfish...i understand her natural desire to have a child but it is purely selfish to bring a child knowingly not give him or her a father.

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aaaabbbb

@ImDone there absolutely is. The love of a father cannot be replaced by this world or anyone. If there is no need for a father there would have been one gender.

aaaabbbb

@ImDone single parent turn out fine and i have met enough kids raised in single parent household who always have said they have missed having other parent inthere lives.

Why do we exist. If only mothers were enough then why a male is needed. Therr is a place for both male and female parent and NO one Earth can replace one genders role love. A male parent cannot replace for mother and nor a mother can replace a father.

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aaaabbbb

@ImDone i live on the same planet as you do. Yes the time has changed, the family structure is broken for various reasons, the divorces are on the rise,men continue to abandon their kids single parenting is on the rise. Is that a good thing;Absolutely NOT. When you hear horror stories from kids and outside you get to know what is going on.

Paid surrogate mothers have become big business and i wonder what the fuck is wrong with this humanity.

If you cannot have a child,go adopt one who is in dire need of a roof and place to live,do not go pay someone to have child for you.

In many aspects the humanity is fucked up. Kids are being raised by two moms and dads neither of them can truly have a child in their unionship ever and replace a role of a father or a mother.

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