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Social Disaster:

My crush visits the shop every Tuesday...
I wake up early... Do my hair.. My eyes... Taking all my game to "him" in the mirror.

He shows up and all I can successfully utter is...

Hi.

😞

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SW-User

Write to him.... you express yourself so beautifully on here ... send him a letter. And it’s old fashioned which is a cute sentiment.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@SW-User Girl I sit here at work all day writing to him. Notes piling up in my purse.

But thank you.. Very kind of you say.

Elegy · 46-50

Push yourself and possibly be rewarded. Worst case scenario you find out he doesn't deserve your time.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@Elegy Good advice .

deviant83 · 41-45, M

Just pretend he’s your best friend and talk to him in the same way. You never need to impress your best friend right? He’ll see you as the natural, beautiful person that you are. If he’s just as natural and beautiful in his response to you, things will go far 😊

Pambi · 31-35, F

@deviant83 Nice... I just wish I could breathe around him.

deviant83 · 41-45, M

Yeah, you definitely need to breathe @Pambi. No breathing will result in a very short relationship 😆

Pambi · 31-35, F

@deviant83 ☺

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

Haha. Been there. It’s just a matter of reordering your thoughts: think and believe that you’re the catch and you have many options. Kind of an attitude of abundance: you have choices and he’s one of them.

Keep thinking that and the conversation will come. Maybe sooner than you think.

SomeMichGuy · M

well he def IS your crush

just remember that not saying sthg might leave you with a lifelong regret, a "what if..."/"if only..." situation.

please honor yourSELF enough to say something

chuck7882 · 61-69, M

Check out what he buys. Then the next time you see him, start a conversation about it. Like, so how did you like that whatever he bought last week?

RyeRumors · 41-45, F

I bet he looks forward to coming in every week because he knows you're there.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@RyeRumors ☺...whoa... I'll wear that smile the rest of the day.

FreeSpirit1 · F

You are folding under pressure...poor thing.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@FreeSpirit1 Haha.. Ugh! So true. This dude just takes me outta my game so quick. I see him: I can't speak.

FreeSpirit1 · F

@Pambi You have turn the tables on him and make him hot under the collar...imho

Pambi · 31-35, F

@FreeSpirit1 Haha... I try. Just not good at it I guess.

SW-User

Best of luck to ya, Pambi. If there's anything any of us can do to help out, you know where to find us.

Reject · 26-30, M

I'm surprised you're that shy because you're so pretty. I would be shocked if he wasn't flattered to see you interested in him.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@Reject Very sweet to say. But I am pretty shy in person.

Reject · 26-30, M

@Pambi Well, you could pull off confidence if you wanted! :) You're good looking enough to.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@Reject Thank you☺

SerenitiesScars · 36-40, M

Tbh.. You're amazing... I think if you hit em up he'll become more than just a crush... I doubt he'll reject you unless he's already involved with someone else..

Pambi · 31-35, F

@SerenitiesScars Very sweet Mr7th. ❤

CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M

Well that awkward greeting is usually enough to indicate to him you're interested. 🤔 I'd say just act more awkward.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@CrustyDDingus ☺....feels more like I'm just looking like a dork.

CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M

@Pambi dorks need love too

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

Learn his name. Guys love when you call them by name.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@GJOFJ3 I know his name... Swirls in my head all day. Just having a difficult time saying it aloud.

GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M

@Pambi you can do this.

Pambi · 31-35, F

@GJOFJ3 Haha... I feel like I gotta date support group. Thank you ☺

SW-User

Cleavage works

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Pambi · 31-35, F

@SW-User Haha... ☺

RyeRumors · 41-45, F

@Pambi too funny. I can imagine this conversation in your head:
"Cleavage deployed ma'am"
"Any affect?"
"Unknown..."
"Bat the eyes and say his name when you talk to him."
"No can do, we've lost the capacity of speech"
PANIC!