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Seems that I was recently named in a post "I Was Catfished".

This is what may happens when someone seeks revenge.

I simply decided to cut off contact with this person. Rejection is often difficult.

It's how we deal with it that matters.

SW-User
Obviously, there was a reason you chose to cut off contact. His reaction gives you confirmation you did the right thing.
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SW-User
@seeandhear You're right. When people choose the childish route, harassing others out of anger, there is no better proof that you've made the right decision to cut off contact.
Smokey · 46-50, M
Well said, how we handle such things, is all about our character
ButterFly2023 · 22-25, M
Don't get involved, no one remembers around here.
Happened to me, Pam, and quite a few others. However, the nasty piece of human detritus that did it made her deranged and socially-crippled post and I was absolutely delighted to note that some people, whom I considered to be friendly towards me, leapt onto that bandwagon and joined in the criticism! However, several of the 'women' who did and the spazoid who made the post were, in reality, men! Further, it gave me the opportunity to prepare a 'little something special' for the other grubby, little, spazoid stink-pots who had joined in! I keep one or two on the pages that I view just so that they can spread their kindergarten gossip to their spazoid 'friends'! I think, to be honest, most of them belong to a little paedo group who, when they are not on SW, spend their time hanging around children's playgrounds or sitting in their cars ogling young infants at their schools from their car windows!
Pambi · 31-35, F
@EugenieLaBorgia Well said. You can never underestimate the number of people who wish to see you fail. ❤
@Pambi And they should never underestimate me! I have a long reach.
Lolco · 36-40, M
I never came across either of you ... I think it is best you both completely eliminate all contact from each other (even if it means blocking & deleting) it will be best in the long run wishing you both the best moving forward.
It would have been good let them know you had changed your mind.

The whole thing was your idea. Then ghosting like that while they sat and waited an hour in a hotel lobby...

There was no disrespect until that point.

And even then 'catfish' is a reasonable assumption given the circumstances.

Perhaps you are who you say you are. Perhaps not. At this point will never know.

At the very least it was rude.
Pambi · 31-35, F
@Callmewhatyouwill A blown out of proportion perhaps but I understand.

Take care of yourself.

Jibby · 56-60, C
I want to say something funny but I'm scared of Pambi at the moment..💓
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
Isn't that an old post?
Pambi · 31-35, F
@CrustyDDingus No this was last night. It's said and done.
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
@Pambi oh, I was remembering when that troll lady was accusing everyone girl under the sun of being a catfish.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Good for you Pambi. That's what the block feature is for. And just so you know, I know you can take care of yourself, but if you ever need me to stand up for you, please know I am always here for you.
Pambi · 31-35, F
@chuck7882 Much love, Chuck. Good to see you back around. ❤
SW-User
The post they wrote almost made it sound like you were messing with them a bit. Embellishment perhaps. Quite telling that they have disappeared. 🤔
Pambi · 31-35, F
@SW-User Embellished a lot. But it's all good.
SW-User
@Pambi hope you manage to stay out of each other’s way.
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Pambi · 31-35, F
@CrustyDDingus Miraculously she chimed in again on that old post as well last night. Coincidence?
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
@Pambi Dubious and deliberate
Honeylove · 46-50, F
Good for you cutting contact. So many people here think you’re here to keep them company.
@Pambi I disagree to the response.

But what's done is done.

Take care.
SW-User
@Callmewhatyouwill I'm gonna miss you my friend. I wish you hadn't left. 😢
SW-User
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Did you tell him why you stopped contact?
@MrBrownstone She didn't
Move along, folks, nothing to see here!
Lolco · 36-40, M
@KayraJordyn we did until you commented & our notifications alerted us lol

 
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