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CatFan10 · M
There was a person sadly no longer with us who however well intentioned often acted in a way that appear rude and at times had very much "I am right and you're so wrong" approach to life that at times was deeply hurtful.
While I wouldn't condone it, I have come to realize that was a part of how they coped with their own deeply worrying and troubling issues by adopting a highly confrontational and at times less than respectful approach to themselves which spilled over to me.
I don't believe for one moment it came from a malice place so it's something best forgiven and moved on from.
While I wouldn't condone it, I have come to realize that was a part of how they coped with their own deeply worrying and troubling issues by adopting a highly confrontational and at times less than respectful approach to themselves which spilled over to me.
I don't believe for one moment it came from a malice place so it's something best forgiven and moved on from.
triangless · 31-35, F
@CatFan10 I like your response, I wish more people thought about it this way.
Peaceful · F
Yeah, all of them. Even the most recent hurts. I don't have time to hold a grudge or anger in my heart. It hurts me too much.
triangless · 31-35, F
@Peaceful you sound like a very sweet person, I wish more people diverted their anger
Petlover04 · 36-40, F
Yes many times.I don't want to hold anger in my heart....it gives much more pain to me.That's y I forgive.
triangless · 31-35, F
@Petlover04 I agree very much.
SW-User
No. I sound bitter but I’ll never forgive them for that
SW-User
Not yet. It's still too fresh. It's going to take time.
Yes I have. It took years to get to that point though. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now. I get it. It sucks.
triangless · 31-35, F
@Insomniac100 Yes, that response comforts me. It's life, eh?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Yes, although the nature of the hurt is relevant. Some things don't deserve forgiveness.
sassypants · 36-40, F
Yes and it was difficult to forgive them.
triangless · 31-35, F
@sassypants I completely understand you, even if it's just so few words.
NankerPhelge · 61-69, M
No, no, no, no, NO! A thousand times NO!
SW-User
Yes. I had to for my sanity's sake.
After i punched them in the face yeah
SW-User
Forgive yourself
SW-User
Uhuuhhh. Still blocked 🤣
SW-User
Yes
ProdigalSummer · F
Yes
SW-User
No, i don't think i can. I stop giving a fck.eventually though about the person and in most cases what they did. Maybe thats forgiving...i don't know
Travelbug · 56-60, F
Yes I don't hold grudges, but there are a couple I'd never lower myself to associate with again
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Maybe.
SW-User
I have