Advice!

In the past, a friend of mine has belittled me, embarrassed me, and just flat out treated me poorly! Despite the way she has made me feel, I try really hard to be happy for her, but sometimes it's hard because I have felt like she hasn't always been a good friend to me. I don't know why it's hard for me to be happy for her and I really want to! Any advice on why I might feel this way and how to overcome it and be happy for all her successes?!

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Serenitree · F

Find someone who cares about your happiness as you care about this girls happiness. She obviously has no respect for you, and you no longer like her, so just walk away. I just checked your profile, and this isn't the first time you've tried to get advice for this same problem.

May I ask why this is so difficult for you? Why can you not just walk away from someone so disrespectful?

youngnconfused · 26-30, F

@Serenitree I fear being alone, but it's something I'm trying to work on! Thanks for taking the time out to answer me :)

Serenitree · F

@youngnconfused I wish you luck in this, but personally, I'd rather be all alone than with someone who treats me like a doormat and wipes their feet all over me every chance they get.

Good luck. I hope you find the self respect you need to kick her to the curb.