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Advice!

In the past, a friend of mine has belittled me, embarrassed me, and just flat out treated me poorly! Despite the way she has made me feel, I try really hard to be happy for her, but sometimes it's hard because I have felt like she hasn't always been a good friend to me. I don't know why it's hard for me to be happy for her and I really want to! Any advice on why I might feel this way and how to overcome it and be happy for all her successes?!
Anna1880 · 31-35, F
Oh I know, maybe she is treating you poorly coz you keep chasing after her. I have a male friend with the same issue. I think its your insecurity or maybe an obsession that you can not leave her alone.
If she was a friend she would never have treated you so poorly. You don't have to be happy for someone like that. Rid yourself of her and save yourself some heartache because she doesn't care about you, and she'll dump on you again if you let her.
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well maybe because deep down you really are not happy for her successes because of the way she has treated you. How a person treats you is how you are them to treat you. Do not allow people to use you are a door mate.
Serenitree · F
Find someone who cares about your happiness as you care about this girls happiness. She obviously has no respect for you, and you no longer like her, so just walk away. I just checked your profile, and this isn't the first time you've tried to get advice for this same problem.

May I ask why this is so difficult for you? Why can you not just walk away from someone so disrespectful?
youngnconfused · 26-30, F
@Serenitree I fear being alone, but it's something I'm trying to work on! Thanks for taking the time out to answer me :)
Serenitree · F
@youngnconfused I wish you luck in this, but personally, I'd rather be all alone than with someone who treats me like a doormat and wipes their feet all over me every chance they get.


Good luck. I hope you find the self respect you need to kick her to the curb.
Anna1880 · 31-35, F
I dont understand why are you still trying to please her ? you know how she is towards you. why still hang around ?
pedrohedgerow · 61-69, M
Friends are those who care about their friends,and actions speak louder than words.Find others who care for you as you do for them.
Someone that treats you like that is not a friend, much less a true friend. Have the self esteem and strength to let her go.
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Sorry but in what respect is this woman in any way a 'friend' ?
Bin the witch !
Hanging2 · 51-55, M
You need a new friend.
Sicarium · 46-50, M
That's not a friend. Move on, find real friends.

 
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