Reaper1333 · 41-45, M
It's his fault. He should have used a condom

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Well it may not be physically putting him in a position but the thought is he should be in the child’s life for the rest of the child’s life and based purely on this question, it wasn’t a planned pregnancy. (If this is even a real situation.) So financially it could put him in a strained position. He may not have seen himself with the mother of the child for the rest of his life. Parents make sacrifices, there is no denying this and he may not be ready for those sacrifices.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
'you putting your semen in my egg is putting me in a position I dont want to be in'

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I bet he wasn’t complaining when the baby was made tho
bamaboylick · 61-69, M
He shouldn’t have put himself in the position to get her pregnant then
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
He put himself in that position the second he decided to have sex without using birth control !
goagainsttheflow · 31-35, F
I don't know. If he doesn't want to be the father he'd best end the relationship. Sure he'd have to pay child support but he doesn't have to raise someone he doesn't love or want for 18 years.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
No one should be forced to lose their child. Neither men nor women.
Whys0serious · 36-40, M
His feelings may be true but as long as the baby is in her body it’s her choice.
VeronicaPrincess · 61-69
Maybe he should of thought of that before he went catting around 🤔
Byron8by7 · M
He is immature and irresponsible - a boy.
CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
I would tell him like I told my ex when I got pregnant with my girls. If you don't want it walk the fuck away. I don't need you to raise my baby.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@CallmeHopelessNotRomantic did your ex stay? :0
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
@CallmeHopelessNotRomanticI'm glad u did what u wanted to...I hope he's supportive financially at least.
CallmeHopelessNotRomantic · 46-50, F
@MartinTheFirst yeah because he saw it as a way to control me. As soon as she was born he stayed threatening me to kidnap her when I tried to get away.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Tough shit, he shouldn't have had unprotected sex if he wasn't prepared to potentially be a parent.
He should probably be castrated.
SINAI · T
Shit is about to go down.

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Grab him by the balls and squeeze. That'll learn him to be less stupid next time.
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F
He doesn’t want to be a dad. Either he gets to be involved with the baby or just pay support