Why do people fall in love with the person who ignores them the most? It's strange isn't it? We...

SW-User

However that's also about level of self belief and fear of commitment
Unavailability though painful can be easier to handle than facing one's own issues
And being unavailable, a fantasy of perfection can be kept alive

SW-User

I think, we lost our sense of self respect being honestly involved and they see it as space to play with us. Keep the walls high. Always.

butterfly1013 · 26-30, F

That is a good question actually, but I'll go on to say that we don't always get to choose who we fall for or who we have a connection with and sometimes it is the forbidden fruit.

Anopenheart · 56-60, M

We all crave a resolution to what is empty or not working in our lives. We want what we cannot have. Basically we usually marry the unresolved issues with our parents.

SW-User

I may be attracted to one of those, but I can never fall in love with someone unless they’ve given me a great deal of attention and respect.

Runningwolves · 61-69, M

I believe it's called active resistance. .. the more you're told no, the more you want it...

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SW-User

Because we accept the love we think we deserve

SW-User

That's not love, that's just curiosity.

Georgimy

Shyness , indicatating love

SW-User

The hard to get syndrome.

antonioio · 70-79, M

You can't make someone to love you
Its a two way thing

whateverhappens · 26-30, F

the lady in your pic she looks familiar is she from a indian soap ?

kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

*ignores*

YoMomma ·

Because some people are nuts and annoying .. Er i mean contrary beyond reason :) or a glutton for punishment or secretly hate themselves or are just plain ungrateful or like to make their life difficult.. Idk :)