Relationships
Well, this sucks, and is hard on me.
I take relationships very seriously. My ex and I have tried continuing being friends since we separated. That has ended up in constant hurting each other, and I know why, we haven't reconciled in ourselves our hurts from our relationship. We've been in argument for the last couple months, with little communication, but very easily any message between either of us becomes a heated emotional affair. I take things personal way too often, I know - but a hurtful word from her melts mountains for me, and my self-esteem. And I'm quite willing to take a hard time in life and try to find meaning and something to learn from.
Yet, it's the first time in my life where I've ever needed to express we must let this become 'water under the bridge'. For me is a silent letting go.
I take relationships very seriously. My ex and I have tried continuing being friends since we separated. That has ended up in constant hurting each other, and I know why, we haven't reconciled in ourselves our hurts from our relationship. We've been in argument for the last couple months, with little communication, but very easily any message between either of us becomes a heated emotional affair. I take things personal way too often, I know - but a hurtful word from her melts mountains for me, and my self-esteem. And I'm quite willing to take a hard time in life and try to find meaning and something to learn from.
Yet, it's the first time in my life where I've ever needed to express we must let this become 'water under the bridge'. For me is a silent letting go.
