I Am In Support of Transgender and Genderqueer People
Right!!!..I don't care if I'm on transition..all i can say is, im doing whats right for myself..not putting myself under any label..just dealing with things as they happen..But tonight was a f*ckin mess.., i wanted to finish my work off, with a few drinks at my local..A man offered me a drink...and im reasonable said im fine..dont need one ..then he looked at my glass and asked for one, so I took the drink..then afterwards, my plan was to get a bus up the road, and he was genuine, he had nice conversation to begin..being realistic, ive experienced life out with the boys, went to watch the football there with ny brother, dad and uncle many of times, and had a laugh!!..so im known and i wanted to go alone just to settle my day...so he was genuine, we were having just a proper chat..he said he'd help me up the road with a taxi..and being new to the whole female life..i wasn't expecting what was next..i just saw him as one of the regulars..but he found me attractive, he was wanting more..touching me, wantinb me to walk and talk to him late, and at that time of night..i had a few drinks, and trusted him..but he was after more...then he eventually gave in, after calling me attractive multiple times...hes the third guy there to approach me or find me attractive, and having lived a chill life in the past..out with the guys, just having a laugh, and genuine talk, whether it be about the football or not...i can say im not prepared for what just happened😞😞😞 x
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Sometimes it comes with the territory....over time you’ll get used to it (and the realization that you are attractive, and won’t be looked at as “one of the guys").
@DragonFruit but im not a stereotype..i get along with the girls, but used to just havin a chill time with the guys..I play pool, i watch football, i drink beer, out just havin a laugh at the weekend, like i did in the past, it actually has me furious i have to deal with this kinda stuff!! x
@All2livefor Nobody is a stereotype, but men are looked at differently than women (especially women who are viewed as attractive).....even if you act like “one of the guys”, most of the guys won’t think of you that way. Not that it’s what you’d want, but it’s how a lot of guys are and it is something you’ll have to deal with as long as they see you as attractive.
