@honeyfemme: again is not offensive , the point is : you find that offensive not for what i read , but quite for the fact that it was something positive about it , you expect everyone to just be , like , mortified , shocked , and treat her like a poor person , as you can see , you are the offensive one , but i am not mad with you for this misunderstanding and this paradox , you only got a little "mind-fucked" by all the bigotry that is quite designed to male people sexual-phobic