I Don't Care If Your Gay Or Straight Or Bi

That's wonderful for being able to see things in a different, more accepting way. Please don't be hard on yourself for not seeing it this way before. We've all been indoctrinated to see things a certain way. You've used what you've been taught as a brilliant survival strategy. I'm so glad you can move beyond that now. 🤗

It's fine. You've already learned that different sexual orientations are okay now. I usually always say that the person's gender doesn't matter. It's that both of them love each other for who they are and stuff. Personality is a very important thing in a person, especially when dating.

As a 44 y/o bisexual male who has struggled for many uears and still does with feeling comfortable with my own sexuality i will say that it is understandable and commendable that you felt one way and now feel another. I think its often the way we are brought up. For me it was being told that being "that way" was not okay. I vowed to never make my children feel like its not okay tl be who they are. I love my parents but i hate that they did that to me.
Im an adult with a loving fiance' who accepts me and loves me for who and what I am. That helps but it doesnt erase everything.
Thats your in this llace now where you can accept people of different sexualities is the commendable part.

Very honest and good to see you change your view