I need a gay friend.

Many years ago when I lived in another part of the country I had a gay friend. Yes, he did provide me with "oral favors", but that wasn't the main reason that he was my friend. He was basically my sexual "priest" if you will. I could talk to him about anything and everything. I could tell him my deepest and darkest fears and fantasies without me feeling ashamed or him being judgemental. There are things that I could discuss with him that I would never tell my family, my wife/gf, a woman or my str8 male best friend. Sometimes it's nice to have a "confessor" or someone to just unload on who will not judge you!!!