Bi, Gay, confused…

Hi everyone,

I’m a male 35, married to a woman. Have been together for 15 years. We have a son who is 5. I’m based in the UK.

I’m really just needing some help and advice. I am so confused. Over the past 2 years I’ve really been facing into my sexual/physical attraction to other guys.

I’ve kind of always physically and sexually been attracted to other lads/men. With some teen experiences to back that up. Though this kind of didn’t bother me in my twenties. Romantically though I have only ever been with girls/women.

I had never seen myself in a relationship with another man. The last 2 years more and more my desire to act on the physical has really grown and whilst I don’t know if I could romantically be with a guy, I’m confused.

Are there others who can help me or I can chat to who have ever been in this situation. I’ve been really open with my wife about my struggle with my sexuality and I really need a place to talk with other like minded people who can guide me through this.

Sorry for the long winded post.

A really confused person!