I Don't Care If You're Gay Or Straight Or Bi

I met this girl in AIT (army training), right now i'm on holiday break but ill be back soon. She's gay and we both messed around a little bit. It's crazy, i've never been attracted to a girl before. But she's different, I really like so much about her and I'm not sure how to handle my feelings or what to do about them.

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SW-User

let them happen, but the military code says no?

Montanaman · M

@SW-User not anymore.👍👍💕

SW-User

@Montanaman LGBTQ is not against the military code now, but what about relationships with fellow military personnel? Considering how many companies are stringent about dating/fraternizing with co-workers it's not in the least imaginative of me to consider they'd still be dated this way?

DeputySchrute · 22-25, F

@SW-User Technically, we cannot date while in training. But once training is over it's not prohibited.

SW-User

@DeputySchrute When is training over?

Montanaman · M

@SW-User true, goes for anyone, any gender. Fraternizing is against ucmj. Some take the risk.

DeputySchrute · 22-25, F

@SW-User For me, in march. For her, in may.

DeputySchrute · 22-25, F

She's gonna see me tomorrow! I am beyond excited, sweaty palms, can't relax.

SW-User

@DeputySchrute I'd tell you do whatever you want, the chance to meet someone you are really interested in is above whatever 'code/rule' but be discreet if you can.