At what age did you decide to be gay?

some kid walked up to me in elementary school and he was like "are you gay?" and I said "No"

then he said "do your parents know you're gay?" and I said "No" without thinking and I tried retracting.

But it was too late.

I was gay.

Around 14.

in none of my incarnations

At what age did you decide to act mature? Oh sorry, you’re not quite there yet.