Not sure if I'm really in the closet any more

@22Michelle The odd thing about my decision to come out to my children at the end of my summer holiday is that a while after I made it i started to wonder what I really meant by it; coming out as what?

@ninalanyon I'm having similar thoughts. I've come to the conclusion that I'm not making ang big declaration. I'm just getting on with my life and if someone in my family, circle of friends, ask me a question regarding how I dress and / or my sexuality I'm not going to lie or deflect anymore. That apart it's nobody's business.

@22Michelle Well yes, that's part of it. What I actually meant that at each moment I can only see so far ahead. Now that I have decided that I'm going to stop hiding my skirts I am now wondering what the next step might actually be. Have I reached the end or are there further revelations. This all started as a lark to liven up a boring evening in a hotel room with some minor naughtiness in an online video chat room. But each step has opened up more of the landscape.

@ninalanyon Who knows? The more I dress, the more I have freedom to dress the I am also wondering where it all leads. I just wish I'd started this journey in my teenage years.