21st December 2025
Oh well Christmas is nearly here and I'm wishing it was all over and forgotten about. I've never been a major Christmas fan, but this year it's only the problems, the downsides that are happeming. I should have booked a Christmas away somewhere, preferably where Christnas just isn't celebrated.
To be fair I can get into, and enjoy Christmas, when you're entertaining small children. However, once they've grown up I just don't get it.
Anyway, more importantly my wife's memory issues are getting worse. She's still okay a lot of the time, but then, lkke yesterday, she doesn't where we are, when we,'re sitting at home. And having accepted we're at home, we've been here for many years she'll then adk me "where are we". The biggest problem for me, so far, is the loss of self confidence she's had. This means I rarely get out on my own and so any thoughts of meeting men for sex just won't be happeming. I've therefore cancelled my account on Fabguys. I was happy chatting to others, posting my pictures and admiring others. Some guys though just wouldn't accept I was unable to arrange meets at short notice. My wife and I were having, and are still talking about, possibly having a threesome. That was to be her decision, but again not just a quick decision. So the hassle, and abuse, from some guys just got to be too annoying, so I'm out. I will miss chatting to the many nice guys who are on Fabguys, but that's all gone now.
So my days now are getting a quick session at the gym, trying to keep in good condition. If anything it just seems to be reminding me how much my body is falling apart. That apart I'm enjoying cooking, especially doing roast dinners. They're pretty easy of course, it's getting it all ready at the right time, planning when to start the various parts of the meal. The foregoing means that I wil be cooking Christmas dinner with my oldest daughter. My wife and other daughter will be charged eith distracting the mother in law. Her cooking skills are pretty non existant, but she always tries to interfere. Christmas wojld be far more enjoyable if she wasn't involved in any way.
In the important matters my wardrobe of dresses, skirts and tops keeps increasing. My biggest issue is I'm running out of space so I'm trying to have a review and slim the wardrobe down. And whole I've been thinking about the slimming fown I've just picked up a dress and a skirt...and a bracelet. And I just love being dressed. My wife likes seeing me dressed, and of late is especially taken with my bras. When I first came out wearing a bra was one of her red line no-no's. And then one night at dinner she looked across and said "you should wear a bra with that dress". I now think I now may have more bras than she does - and my panties always match!
Oh well enough for now I think. I'll try and answer any questions.
To be fair I can get into, and enjoy Christmas, when you're entertaining small children. However, once they've grown up I just don't get it.
Anyway, more importantly my wife's memory issues are getting worse. She's still okay a lot of the time, but then, lkke yesterday, she doesn't where we are, when we,'re sitting at home. And having accepted we're at home, we've been here for many years she'll then adk me "where are we". The biggest problem for me, so far, is the loss of self confidence she's had. This means I rarely get out on my own and so any thoughts of meeting men for sex just won't be happeming. I've therefore cancelled my account on Fabguys. I was happy chatting to others, posting my pictures and admiring others. Some guys though just wouldn't accept I was unable to arrange meets at short notice. My wife and I were having, and are still talking about, possibly having a threesome. That was to be her decision, but again not just a quick decision. So the hassle, and abuse, from some guys just got to be too annoying, so I'm out. I will miss chatting to the many nice guys who are on Fabguys, but that's all gone now.
So my days now are getting a quick session at the gym, trying to keep in good condition. If anything it just seems to be reminding me how much my body is falling apart. That apart I'm enjoying cooking, especially doing roast dinners. They're pretty easy of course, it's getting it all ready at the right time, planning when to start the various parts of the meal. The foregoing means that I wil be cooking Christmas dinner with my oldest daughter. My wife and other daughter will be charged eith distracting the mother in law. Her cooking skills are pretty non existant, but she always tries to interfere. Christmas wojld be far more enjoyable if she wasn't involved in any way.
In the important matters my wardrobe of dresses, skirts and tops keeps increasing. My biggest issue is I'm running out of space so I'm trying to have a review and slim the wardrobe down. And whole I've been thinking about the slimming fown I've just picked up a dress and a skirt...and a bracelet. And I just love being dressed. My wife likes seeing me dressed, and of late is especially taken with my bras. When I first came out wearing a bra was one of her red line no-no's. And then one night at dinner she looked across and said "you should wear a bra with that dress". I now think I now may have more bras than she does - and my panties always match!
Oh well enough for now I think. I'll try and answer any questions.
70-79, T
