7th October 2024

Well what to say? Is my life that empty that I have nothing to tell about my life. Here I am a bisexual crossdresser who's out to his wife and some close friends, who dresses regularly, clothes shops with his wife, has a very active sex life with his wife, including bum fun. And yet I'm struggling to write anything about my life.
Anyway my wife and I are now swimming 3 times a week, and I'm also back in the gym. And I'm shattered! I hadn't realised just how unfit I was. Today it's swimming and right now I'm wondering how I can get out of it? As usual though I'll get it done and feel good that I've got it done.
In adfition I'm now doing all the cooking, and enjoying it. Maybe because I make much less mess than my wife did I actually enjoy doing a roast dinner. Then again maybe the roast dinners are why I'm not losing weight swimming, walking and hitting the gym!

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ninalanyon · 61-69, T

Every sentence in that post could easily have been expanded to a whole page.

Swimming three times a week (makes me feel tired just thinking about it), active sex life (mm more detail please!), roast dinners (definitely a risky behaviour regarding waist dimensions), the contrast between a man being a less messy cook than his wife (usually the other way about). Or should I have said her wife? The whole business of pronouns that much of the world seems to be obsessing about lately.

But of course you must write as much as you want to. Or is it that you do want to write but feel that none of it is interesting enough? If so be reassured that what little you do write is far more interesting than most posts on SW.

22Michelle · 61-69, T

@ninalanyon I think I'm partly struggling to write at all, and partly I'm finding much of my life uninteresting to me. I did used to find writing very easy, but nowadays it just seems too hard.
Nb I am hoping to be swimming today, but I spent most of the weekend being ill. I think I'm feeling better, but I'll see how I feel in an hour or so.
I shall however take your thoughts on board and consider boring anyone who reads my posts.

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

@22Michelle

finding much of my life uninteresting to me.

I think you must be holding yourself to an unnecessarily high standard of interestingness. The opening lines of Auguries of Innocence always come to me in this sort of situation:

To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour