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I Am A Crossdresser And I Like Me

As I go trying to develop myself (style, look, etc.) I keep finding a growing following of the sissy subculture. It seems as though that everyone is going that way. It's not really my thing. I have nothing against those that decide to that route, but I just can't see myself as being submissive to anyone. I have an independent streak a mile wide and tend to do things the way I feel works for me. I can't see myself in those kind of dresses either. I think many of them are really cute and some of them really pull it off, but I would feel really silly in them. I prefer a style more like Audrey Hepburn where the look is really simple and timeless. If not that style I tend to try to be creative. I'll put something together and if it don't work I'll find something that will bring it together. This view sort of stems from being a tech for so long and having the attitude that if something doesn't work, then you find or develop a way to make it work. Sometimes it takes time to streamline that idea, but eventually it all comes together just like developing a style.

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DonnaSt
It appears that you and I are similar in approach. I never have been a tech but I am a CD. Crossdressing is everything that you want it to be and nothing that others want you to be. If your approach makes you happy then stay with it. If you wanted to be a "sissy" then you would already be there. Thanks for your comments.
Jessmari · 46-50
I agree with what your saying and I have no intentions of trying to produce some division or draw lines. It just seems to be everywhere, and almost like there is a push to go that way. It might be that this is a growing thing at the moment trying to get out in the open (more or less). It may also be a product of social media functions which tends to connect everything with the nearest relatable topic. Either way it seems to be screaming for attention.

"Crossdressing is everything that you want it to be and nothing that others want you to be." No truer words have been spoken.
DonnaSt
I like your thoughts and i agree but I must point out that the "sissy" part is the highly sexual portion of the genre and "highly sexual" always gets the attention.
Jessmari · 46-50
Good point.