I am widowed and had my first bi experience last week

@SW-User exactly 1 year

@aran1 If you feel you are ready to experience new elements of life, love ... with a want to explore, I say go for it... (I wouldn't be ready)

@aran1 it was not planned or anything.
was sad and drunk at bar and followed someone home who talked to me

@aran1 Always accept what you have done, ok? And I've been close to that road before, but it suggests to me healing instead of chasing escaping sorrows... but I know I'm the odd one here, not just putting up positive encouragement.. so you do what you feel is best, remember though when you are in lows you can do things you don't even know you don't want. Be mindful.

@SW-User but waking up next to someone after what feels eternity felt good

@aran1 Good, I'm not going to question that, obviously...

@SW-User thanks for no judgement