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To other LGBTQs: How do you cope with homophobes?

I personally often get anxious from just thinking if a certain person might be homo- or transphobic or against any LGBTQs. Anyone else?
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It's really something how at least half of these comments are from people who don't accept the lgbtq+ community. :/

I just keep my mouth shut, try to blend in, and hope no one finds out I'm bisexual or a supporter of the entire lgbtq+ community. It feels awful. I feel like a betrayer.
I also try to be appreciative of what I have in my country as far as lgbtq+ rights go. And I am appreciative that I don't have to live in fear for my life.

Online I try to stand up against homophobes and transphobes by being informative and correcting them. I don't believe in fighting hate with hate.

I don't feel like I really cope. I feel a little sick all the time knowing I am more likely than not surrounded by people who think an unchangeable part of who I and many others are is wrong and/or disgusting.
GlassDog · 41-45, M
@AmbivalentFriability: You're also surrounded by people who think an unchangeable part of you are is no different to the unchangeable part of who they are. We're all different, but we're all the same.