So a few weeks ago I was considering telling one of my friends that I'm questioning my sexuality

But then I realized I don't really want to tell her. I wanted to tell her, because she's gay and so I thought it would be easier cause she gets it. But, no I wont tell her. Not right now anyway.
But maybe to my best friend. I really want to tell her, but I'm a little scared for some reason

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Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M

Your close friends may know or suspect. If they are really close friends, you should be able to share with them. But I would suggest bring it up carefully, just in case they might not be as supportive as you hope. Maybe bring up a Hollywood star or some public figure who has come out recently as gay or bi. Maybe their reaction will give you a clue how they would react to what you want to discuss.

Do you want to tell because you want to discuss your emotions/feelings with a friend, or maybe hoping to try being intimate with another woman?

It is a blessing to have friends that you can discuss important things with.

Pokenams · 26-30, F

I actually told her about some lesbian youtubers that I like and we watch their videos together. I know she'll be supportive because she has other friends that just came out to her.
But yeah I actually think she suspects it.
But I think I wanna be sure myself before I tell her

Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M

It's good that she'll be supportive. Even if she suspects it, you are right that its best to think about it before you tell her, or else it might turn into a embarrassing moment.

Pokenams · 26-30, F

@Longlegs2014: exactly. But you know I really like the fact that even if she suspects it she's not telling me. Like she's waiting for ME to tell her

Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M

Yes. Giving you space as it were.

softspokenman · M

@Pokenams: If you watch porn with her I'm sure she must realize that you are interested. Next time may be a good time to bring it up.

Pokenams · 26-30, F

@softspokenman: 😑

ajoite · 51-55, F

@softspokenman: Twat