Now with a much happier life with help
Now with a much happier life with help. It took me 20 years realizing I was transgender growing. I knew this at age 12 and then at age 32 it got worse bottling it all up. Luckily my wife understood me, she is a post op MTF transsexual. Remember we talked one day and asked her how she knew that she was transgender as kid. Said she felt not like one of the boys and was concerned about me. Told her I have been hiding it on for this too long and knew I was transgender at age 12. She was proud of me finally opening up and said the coming out part is not easy. Next was coming out to my family and they knew I was holding in a long time secret. My sister did accept it seeing I was hurting inside for a long time. My parents, they were shocked at first and did take a little time finally coming to terms I was never happy in my life in a way. My transition part, wife was a great help with. It was 3 years of transitioning but I decided not to have the GRS which she still supports to this day. Also our relationship is a lot better now since I opened up and transitioned. I love my new life knowing I am my true self finally. I knew this hurt a previous relationship with an ex GF of mine keeping it in. This ex and I are on good terms, we have 2 sons together whom are still are on good terms with me now happy as a woman. My sons do call me Mika and dad, it was a learning curve for them during my transition


