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(controversial) I have a friend that I've been getting to know

We've gone on a few dates. He seems cool. So he asked me to download an app. So I go to the play store and search it to see what it's about. And it's an LGBTQ app. So I asked him are you gay or bi (I'm confused) he says I will be honest I've been with a transexual but we didn't have sex. Immediately I felt disgusted. I'm sorry but I did. In my opinion that makes you gay if you let another man suck your 🥒 I'm so disgusted I don't even see him the same now. What is your thoughts on this? Let's be adults and have this conversation.
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Nightwings · F
Perhaps what you think is disgust, is actually fear. Why be disgusted by what two adults do in the bedroom together, maybe it just scares you because knowing that, you don't know what to expect from this man. He's different from other men you've dated, so he feels unpredictable. Anyways I think you should stop seeing him, because he should probably be with someone who's more mature and have this stuff figured out already. You likely still need to work on yourself before you're ready for a relationship. 🤍
For real???

What does it even matter??? Sure, the dude has a history... I'm going to assume that you're no virgin either.

It's his eggplant he can decide for himself where he wants to stick it.

In a way, I think that the idea of talking about your previous partners is toxic just because it always seems to lead to one party getting jealous, insecure or some other bs. All you really need to know is does he have any children and does he have any STD's. At least he didn't confess to being a pedo - there's a real reason to feel disgusted.
Jessmari · 46-50, T
Your reaction makes it pretty clear this will not work out for either of you.
I don’t think it’s my business who someone else has been with but if there’s a sexual relationship I’d worry about STDs. Not sure the identity of the third party would matter
EldritchFox · 41-45, F
I don't think that's disgusting, but it was a very strange roundabout way to tell you. He seems a bit ashamed or unsure of your reaction, he should of said something to you directly.

 
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