Am i gay if.......

I like women, have been with women all my life. Like sex with them, holding them like they're bodies, kissing them, etc.

Except when I was a teen, my self and two other boys experimented sexually with each other. Started out as looking, then touching. One boy Tommy I still think about today. Can still see his skinny, hairless body and cute little cock. Loved giving him BJ's, him exploding in my mouth and us F-ing each other rubbing out cocks together. I was skinny and hairless too, we were two hot little twinks and didn't know it back then. This is 30+ years ago.

I've looked at gay porn, shemale porn over the years. Am attracted to very feminine, shemales, completely shaved, passable the more feminine they are the more I like it. But that is porn, not the real world.

In the real world have looked around at guys in sexual way and 99% of the time I am like Hell no! Too hairy, to macho, too smelly, to guy like--the thought of having sex with one,,,is gross to me.

BUT

I have fantasied about finding a skinny, shaved feminine guy with long hair or a wig, to do things with give him BJ's. The more feminine and girly he is the better. It's fantasy I have.

So am I Gay, bi, or what? Very confused over this.

WestonT · 18-21, M

I don't know; it's hard to put a label on things sometimes, but I'll try. :P

If you're attracted to women and like having sex with them, then you're not gay. You might be some variety of bi, if you're interested in men sexually, even if your interest is very limited, only to guys who have a feminine appearance. Bisexuals aren't 50/50 into men/women most of the time. You might have an attraction to femininity generally, whether it's in women or men.