I Am In Support of Transgender and Genderqueer People

So yeah?, my last post...the one about me finishing it with my boyfriend. After way more downs than ups. But in a strange way?, the positives still questioning my feelings as we went places together, like I can sort of say I miss them for how they felt at the time, the time of innocence through my eyes. But, this was a tactic well thought through...not completely successful however because it didn't change me!....So yes!!..The differences in backgrounds, in politics, religious views..family beliefs in like? general I guess you could say???...He showed an interest in me, but he really liked me...And I am not actually that easy 🤣..I am a transwoman, and this would be my first relationship since my transition in 2020. Now you're probably wondering if you're not easy?..He was introduced via friends, attended a few times, and asked about me. And I should have predicted a storm coming!. Firstly he asked my friends about me when I was already away at a political talk for a week, and he knew I was at one!..but I was invited for a particular LGBT part ..the rest was further politics. Still after that he wanted to meet me privately, I told him..you know I support ".........". And he said "No, I didn't".
It wasn't anything bad, I just knew it wasn't his thing. But he still wanted to see me!!!. We met at a place and this manipulation of overspending ( which only felt like kindness at the time) begun!. He surprised me with an expensive bouquet of flowers, and got us a table in a nice cafe. But there's more......

1. Turning up to my work with expensive cosmetic gifts, and more flowers. ( I turned to my colleague and said "He doesn't have to do this!, I like him, for him!!, I wonder if he wants something in return?" He wanted me to change my political view. Everything he was warned about before devoting to a relationship!!
2. Sending me photographs of him in my favourite locations, and actually asking me to take him to my favourite places..only to then find...I might be turning against my political views by joining him later with the excuse "I done everything you wanted!"...when he actually insisted
3. Going to a bar were my uncle works and becoming friendly with a member of the family. A place that I don't actually think is his scene. He again told me he loves it. But anywhere else that has the same trend or music vibes he dislikes. He done that to get closer to my uncle, to get closer to me!!...like there's something in common
4. Asking me to open my Christmas presents early when I finished the relationship!!. Because he kept trying to change my views. Telling me lies, and playing psychological games. He told me to open them, and they were meaningful and thoughtful gifts!!.another form of manipulation

But I said, this is the second time you've tried to change me,.. I told you there's things that won't lead to our relationship!, but I have not tried to change you. What will the next thing be. I didn't say to his face, that I knew what he was up to, making me open a lot of meaningful and expensive gifts...but I was thinking it!... I just done the decent thing, I said thank you, I will bring his when it arrives x