finally coming to terms with sexuality yet im being teased

im finally coming to terms that im bisexual. I'm currently trying to get out of a toxic situation with a man relationship wise and I open up that i'm accepting myself for being bisexual and all he can think about is how hot that is and that the neighbor across the street from me who is attractive he decides to send me pics of her as a way of teasing me. How do I explain that I dont appreciate that and thats one step further for me to leave the relationship from him and just coparent our daughter we have together?

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Ontheroad · M

So, without being too direct, this guy you are in a relationship with is a jerkwad with the emotional maturity of a 3-year old. I doubt there is anything you can do to make him act like a caring, adult partner. So, if it were me, he would be hitting the door as soon as possible.

sociable24 · 31-35, F

@Ontheroad oh im currently working on leaving it is a process since ive been with this person for many years but i thought he could understand and be ok with my sexuality but like most men they think thats an invite for threesomes just because someone is attracted to the same gender

exchrist · 31-35

Ppl in general humorize things that are new or unknown to them. Also flipping it on him might be most effective. A sort of how do like it kinda thing. Tell him how hot some guy is then send the pictures indicating the guy likes him and how hot u think it would be. That'd shut him up. Or pull the your too immature for who I really am card. Bisexuality is soon to b the norm. FYI

HootyTheNightOwl

That's easy... "Just because I am bisexual, it doesn't mean that I'm attracted to all women in the same way that I wasn't attracted to all men before".

Simple, truthful and to the point.

sociable24 · 31-35, F

@HootyTheNightOwl thanks for the advice. I definitely need it during this time.

HootyTheNightOwl

@sociable24 I also avoid the whole threesome issue by not dating men and women at the same time.

If you don't muddy the waters, then there can't be any confusion about the potential for threesomes at any point.

CassandraSissy · 26-30, T

Think you need to give him more than just a comment, sweetie.....

Something like 'Well, that might be nice but you, obviously, won't be the man in that relationship....'

if he still thinks that you are both together then...that's not right for either of you...

🤔

gdon39 · 46-50, M

I’m very happy for you becoming more aware of what you feel and how you are thinking.

It’s not as easy thing to reconcile yourself with.

Sorry your neighbor went the way he did.

I would love to chat if you are interested

SW-User

The first thing I think you should do is recognize that despite being a father, regardless of his age, he is no man. He is a child in a man's body. And you cannot reason with a child.

SW-User

Be direct as possible.

He might be understanding.

I think @HootyTheNightOwl already gave a good answer for your concern.

Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M

Get out of it as quickly as possible
Go live your life
Take care

WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T

men are dicks that is all

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