I swear I’m not gay/lesbian buttt

I was on the bus and this girl was sitting opposite me , bare in mind there is small amount of space . I had my legs crossed and she had her leg in some position too. Every now and then when the bus was moving our legs would touch by accident of course . But to be honest I kind of liked when it happened ….. it made me a bit wet … I need help

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JDcaped · 26-30, M

What you felt was 100% perfectly natural. I felt similarly when it came to well many things growing up but now I understand myself a lot better.
Also, if you like guys and girls you may be bi and if you are gay then therm that's perfectly fine

Cherryblossom10 · 22-25, F

@JDcaped it’s not fine cuz I’ve been brought up to belive being gay or lesbian means there’s something wrong or person isn’t normal .. don’t get me wrong I respect lgbtq and all that but I’m just confused about myself

JDcaped · 26-30, M

@Cherryblossom10 You're not alone. I was brought up the same way in a conservative Christian and while my family has changed some and we have all grown to accept LGBTQ+ I still don't feel comfortable coming out to my family both immediate and extended especially some of them, that I want to be a girl sometimes and I may be a transgender female. Let alone before that it took me about 3 years after high school before I admitted that I had a fetish. The reason being that it has been so stigmatized by my family and our society and culture.

I am sorry and did not mean to belittle what you are feeling and how confusing must all be. I just wanted to help let you know that you aren't alone because for a long time I thought I was and it was kinda scary.