Thoughts of Binding

@HootyTheNightOwl I think I might be genderfluid

@Paisen That's possible... it could also be that you have no gender, too.

Do you feel like you're just trying to pick a side for the sake of "belonging" or do you feel more comfortable as one gender or the other???

@HootyTheNightOwl Sometimes I genuinely want to go back to being a boy temporarily. Never for long. Maybe a few days or a week at a time

@Paisen You are mostly a girl, then. In your case, binding could be one solution.

When I wanted to make my breasts feel less noticeable as a boy, I would simply wear a tight bra - though not so tight that it cut into my skin.

Being from a transphobic family, I couldn't simply explain that I'm not a girl any more than I could say that I'm not a boy either... so that worked for me at the time.

@HootyTheNightOwl I am mostly a girl. Sometimes I identify as a boy and sometimes I identify as enby

@Paisen NB is the best I ever did as far as figuring myself out - now I just accept that I have no gender at all and live with it.

I like the freedom of being able to dress in whatever I feel comfortable in - be it "Menswear" or "Womenswear".

I don't mind going the extra mile and wearing a evening gown for the right man, too - though I'm not that big on skirts and dresses.

@HootyTheNightOwl I love dresses