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So continuing on from my last post about my relationship. My boyfriend and I had a chat. And he really loves me. But? as sensitive as I am, hate seeing him all upset 😢. He was really wanting me to arrive with answers, a conclusion to several problems. I said in my last post, I never knew how controlling and devoting a relationship would be!. And then I thought?..If he has gone so far spoiling me with gifts, and showing so much interest in all of my interests, is he trying to create this unbreakable connection?. At first, when he was buying me random and quite expensive gifts, I felt kind of bad in a way?..I thought, he doesn't have to tempt me to like him?? 🤣...And recently I've been thinking is it his own lack of confidence?..is it self confidence?..he doesn't want guys on my social media ive had a past with, or people phoning me, he wants me to be as overly devoted as he is, to show I really have feelings for him. And this conversation last night >>>> I said " my social circle isn't stereotypical, I have a few close female friends. But I tend to go out drinking in places my brothers used to go, and were I used to go pre-transition. So I socialise with guys, talk football, a guy might get us a beer, then i might get him the next. He then said "RIGHT!!..if a guy offers you a drink, don't accept it!!, you have a boyfriend!!, don't ever accept drinks from another guy!!. And I really don't know if he's insecure, he does give his all, hangs up phonecalls, tells others who come over "my girlfriend is over there"...but, life shouldn't be ssoooooooo strict!!...is it self confidence??...or does he not trust me?? 😭😭😭😭
He sounds quite insecure and controlling... Hopefully he'll be able to learn to trust you a bit more, otherwise it won't work out in the long term.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Don’t hit him with that mallet! Keep talking and try to establish boundaries you both can live with if you want this relationship to last.
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
He then said "RIGHT!!..if a guy offers you a drink, don't accept it!!, you have a boyfriend!!, don't ever accept drinks from another guy!!. ...or does he not trust me??

He doesn't trust you.

 
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