Either Male or Female.
Stay away from Gender Ideology which is corrupting the youth of your country (usa and canada). Focus on your Studies and Career. Support your Parents. Help the poor and needy. Learn Web Development or App Development. Create business ideas for future.
These are all First world problems ( the problems which happen to people in highly developed countries of Westeren Europe and North America ) when you get older travel to asian countries and witness how people have to struggle for basic human rights, food, clothing and shelter.
Tell yourself how blessed you're with whatever you have.