Being trans has yet to interfere with my dating life. Being trans doesn't make you undesirable. My romantic life has actually improved since I transitioned, it's easier to contribute to a relationship when you're comfortable with yourself. Plus you can still have biological children after medically transitioning
Yeah I've done heaps better since being out. I dunno seems a weird take 2 me🤷♀️.
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@Alison yeah, the biggest conflict I've had with being trans and relationships is feeling bad when my partner has to deal with me on my dysphoric days, but that's apart of being in a relationship with anyone with less than perfect mental health
@SW-User I can relax now mostly, because I don't own the fact I'm supposed2b a guy or some dumb shit: so that just gets sorted it it doesnt: either way I'm in front. I dunno things are just easier and I do better.
sory but i dont agree with this its an illusion a lie you tell yourself.. i also dont agree with what that person is implying on the comments. its not like we can find love either way. its all a lie one way or another.
@everyoneknows kinda sounds like you have a lot of internalized transphobia/homophobia, it used to be a really common belief that gay people couldn't find love yet that's just been proven wrong
@SW-User yes i do have a lot of that internalized because ive lived comoletly surrounded by homofobes and transfobes my whole life and i cant think diferent from that because of my daily dose of homofobia coming my way.. it just basicly makes me think like this. its like brainwash on a very high level but honestly i dont think its possible true love for those people. its just a phase and then they end up alone or with someone of the oposite gender..
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@everyoneknows my gay trans ass ain't gonna die alone unless I live that widower life
