Women by far. I’m very selective with men and the large majority of men, I don’t feel anything for at all. Because of that, when I was younger I thought I was just gay having only been with and attracted to women. My first kiss was a girl at 15 and my first sexual encounter was with the same girl at barely 16. I had never considered guys and then suddenly at 19, I found a guy in college that I was really attracted to (surprise I’m Bi) and I later ended up in a relationship with him and had my first sexual encounter with him. I’ve been with a pretty even split guys to girls in relationships (just two more girls than guys) but that’s not very many people with me in general. Sex is a big deal to me and I don’t have one night stands or sex with people I’m not in a solid relationship with. It’s a very select group of men I’m even attracted to. I’m much more generally attracted to women but even there I’m pretty picky because it’s way more than just looks and initial attraction before I get close to someone & intimate.
@YukikoAmagi I feel like that was an overly long explanation and it’s almost easier to say that I’m just gay because I am honestly attracted to so few men at all but then if I have attraction to one it’s like I’ve lied, so that’s not very good either. I’m always wanting to be fair to people and if they’re a guy their odds are not very good with me.
@YukikoAmagi And I’m a terrible flirt but as far as actual sex... I don’t sleep around. I’m intensely erotic and highly sexual but only with people I love and am committed to. I can’t separate love and sex, so sex is a really big deal for me. I’m also very careful to not flirt with guys because they seem to get the wrong idea that it’s more than just casual flirting way easier than most of the women I’ve flirted with.
@DarkHeaven [c=#359E00]but i like to read it. Well.. me too, i only sleep with people who have relationship with me, and rarely flirting, the real me is pretty tame[/c] 😝
@YukikoAmagi That’s super sweet. There’s nothing wrong with tame. All that means is you can get real wild with the right girl behind closed doors. 🖤🤗😘💋
@YukikoAmagi That’s why I’m real careful. I release intense emotions of those that I’m with and myself. It’s a storm that will devour those not prepared for those emotions. 🖤
@DarkHeaven Yea i completely underatand as i have been through this 'sexual complication' stuff.I thought no one might be as complicated as me.I am attracted to women a lot.I just can't control it.I love being intimate with them and i enjoy it as well but i am never satisfied and that leaves me frustrated.On the other side i am not attracted to men much but I've been with one and whenever i got intimate with him it satisfied me completely.
@LostGirl1295 I would think that it might be the penetration aspect. I personally don’t get much intense stimulation from penetration at all and am more easily stimulated from my labia, clit, and hood. All the external stuff, making same sex stuff pretty easy for me. Have you tried sex with a girl using a strap-on maybe? Might give you both the full intensity and intimacy of both. 🖤
