Look this is just a very sensitive subject. As much as you don't like it, a lot of ppl will find the idea as ludicrous. I appreciate that you choose to be accepting of others but that's not so easy for many.
@JovialPlutonian YES THIS IS A SENSITIVE ISSUE BECAUSE MY TRANS FRIEND WANTS FO KILL HERSELF EVERYDAY BECAUSE OF PEOPLE LIKE THEM. AND YES I WILL SHAME THEM FOR NOT BEING RESPECTFUL AND ACCEPTING WHEN PEOPLE COULD LITERALLY [i]KILL[/i] THEMSELVES BECAUSE OF THEM.
@Azrael neither you or your friend can control what others do, you can only control yourselves. You have to accept that ppl are going to form their own opinions on things and they're going to upset some ppl.
@Azrael it's not unnatural to have an emphasis of traits of your opposite gender but to change your body's sex via surgery is not natural. I'm not trying to ignore how your friend feels but I am trying to recognise why they may feel as they do. I myself am androgynous and was very uncomfortable with my not being super alpha because I was more sensitive and empathetic compared to the stereotypical man. But to feel empathy as a man is not unnatural, although it is something men are quick to reject in themselves out of not meeting the stereotype that society has put on them of how they should be.
