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So even though I'm essentially fem identified at this point I really don't know the struggles of a Lesbian in dating.

I really need to get my Skype back because I had a good lesbian friend who talked with me a lot about dating.

Seems kind of like there's a lot of pressure on femme women in that community to date women who are Butch and like there's just a lot of pressure to be more masculine for some reason.

my friend did femme/femme dating and they were kind of down on her for it.
Littlelegskate · 26-30, F
The most common question I’ve been asked by my friends when I have a girlfriend is ‘so who’s the man in the relationship?’ It can be frustrating constantly having to explain/defend yourself @BetweenKittensandRiots
@Littlelegskate Eek. Very strange to see lesbians attracted to butch. Isn't the whole point that you're into women? Not men. Why replicate heterosexuality in a lesbian relationship?
Littlelegskate · 26-30, F
It’s not that simple, I have a friend who’s quite butch and has an amazing personality, I’d rather date her than a feminine girl who’s got a shitty personality. Everyone has their preferences I guess @BetweenKittensandRiots
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/femme-lesbian-misconception-myth-dating/1987140

reading.
Littlelegskate · 26-30, F
I’m slightly confused how a blog about one lesbians experience of life and hardships is relevant to this? @BetweenKittensandRiots