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Why do straight girls want to make you their best friend when they find out you are like boys?

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F Best Comment
No pressure and you’re safe
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@Keepitsimple What if the guy dated guys but was Bi?
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Still pretty safe in my opinion.@GarryToppins
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@GarryToppins Thanks for BA!! 😁

Because you like the things we like, you treat them better than the straight guys they’ve been with, you’re fun, friendly, and most of all, you “get” us, dahling! 😂
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace I don't get them at all. All my friends are women or gay. Well, one is a latino, but that is basically the same thing.
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swimmergirl · 22-25, F
you immediately are jumped to the "safe zone" they automatically figure you will go after the boys and not them. even though you might be bi, it's a chance they will take figuring you prefer boys rather than girls.
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@swimmergirl I think we do get boxed in. I got drunk and kissed a female friend that I was really close to. She freaked.
swimmergirl · 22-25, F
@GarryToppins to bad she freaked. ooops on your part? guess she wasn't expecting it or didn't want you too.
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@swimmergirl Ruined the friendship. Alcohol is great at allowing you to do stupid stuff.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
Cause you are not a 'threat' to them. They don't have to worry about being hit on or molested or whatever..
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@SoggedNapped Just because you like boys, doesn't mean you don't like girls too or won't fall into a drunk mistake.
SoggedNapped · 31-35, M
@GarryToppins WEll, that is a risk and you also have to let them know you are bi...so
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@SoggedNapped Do you?
Gay men are safe dates and good friends. It was so nice to not have to worry about getting hit on when I didn't want to be and just have a good time.
BI men can be a whole different thing. I did have a couple hit on me.
One was 50 and I was 19. He even lived with a man. So you can imagine my shock when he asked me to move in with both of them to be one big happy family.
So you never know.
I always wondered why people did that 🤔 my best friend is a straight guy, so I personally don’t do that lol I don’t get the point in choosing friends based on their sexual orientation or whatever.
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@666Maggotz I don't think it is a friend choice. I knew a girl when I was closeted and we were friends. Then i came out and she got incredibly excited.
@GarryToppins lol that’s stupid. I mean I have gay/lesbian friends but it’s nothing to get excited over 😂
Quizzical · 46-50, M
Faghags and fruitflies 😁
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@GarryToppins I have no idea what CW is... Sorry
GarryToppins · 36-40, M
@Quizzical Lucky you!
Quizzical · 46-50, M
@GarryToppins I don't watch TV
Mahaq · F
Really ? Where are those girls ? I didn’t got yet
destinyfabulous · 36-40, F
Easy to communicate with

 
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