Struggles & Identity

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Are you accepted or ignored?

Do people close to you know your darkest secrets? And if they do, do they accept you for who you are, or do they tend to try and ignore what you have told them. I "came out" about my sexuality to my partner a few years ago and they were amazingly understandable and began to enjoy new things with me. I know its not always this way for everybody. Are those closest to you accepting of who you are? :) x

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Graciebaby · F

Never came out as you say. When dressed normally i wear androgenous clothes wiv a fem inine slant. Its fukkin blantently clear to most. The ones dont get it,who cares. My body is changing most noticably my chest of course. Ive started to wear womens clothes for work now. Today i wore a Chanel 2 piece suit v tight lil skirt and my boss took me to lunch.

Spent most of it looking down the front of my jacket.

I swear a couple of times i thought he was going to give em a squeeze to be sure,lol.

Bollix called me sweetheart twice😝

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@Graciebaby that made me smile 😊😘

ProdigalSummer · F

Only a couple of people have broken through to the real, vulnerable me. It hasn’t gone well, so I’ll be keeping that wall up indefinitely.

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ProdigalSummer · F

@Niethernor the trust isn’t there, so the connection isn’t it either. I need both to open up.

Niethernor · 51-55, T

Me too. I'm sure you will find it soon x

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

@ProdigalSummer 🤗

SaraTG · 51-55, T

No. They pretend to be! Some still dead name me

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@SaraTG then it is their loss, and you are better off without these people in your life x

DragonFruit · 61-69, M

Most of the people close to me don’t know my darkest secrets....and I haven’t told them because of negative things they have had to say about others who are like me. I’ll remain closeted at least for the time being.

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@DragonFruit I guess its a question of knowing the people you would like to tell. I so get that, I've heard some of my family members be derogatory about peoples sexual preferences, so would never share me with them lol

Gangstress · 41-45, F

I seem to be everyone's shoulder bit when I need one there's only one person there my gf. But I like it that way.

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Niethernor · 51-55, T

@Gangstress I'm always here if you need to vent. PM me anytime you need an ear honey x @Gangstress

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@Niethernor thank you x

Niethernor · 51-55, T

Anytime my friend x

curiouscapguy · 51-55, M

It has taken some time and ups and downs but yes.

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curiouscapguy · 51-55, M

I understand that. You always assume that they are too much for anyone still love and care about after. That things will change.. and they do but sometimes for the better. Its not always a disaster

Niethernor · 51-55, T

Perfectly put my friend x

curiouscapguy · 51-55, M

@Niethernor Its good to know I am not the only one. :)

Iwillsurvive · 22-25, F

I have deep trust issues.
I can't open myself to many people.

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@Iwillsurvive bless you, hopefully that will recede as time passes in life, or we meet more open minded and empathic people. Good luck in life my friend. X

Iwillsurvive · 22-25, F

@Niethernor it isn't only the problem from other people

Often I am the problem because I have amazing people around me

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@Iwillsurvive I fully understand. Thank you for sharing x

SaraTG · 51-55, T

No but they pretend they are

Niethernor · 51-55, T

@SaraTG you made me feel very sad for you. I am an empath, and feel your pain. I'm sorry you feel lost and alone.

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