If you're an ex-muslim, you really have to be your own and only ally
Don't get your hopes too high and don't wait for the world to catch on developing a moral compass. They won't.
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SinlessOnslaught · M
Miram · 31-35, F
@SinlessOnslaught I understand and I appreciate you, but I am talking about much more than myself. This is structural form of oppression too many are involved in. The majority in fact of voices in the political arena intentionally sacrifice the minorities within the minorities.
There was a time when I needed the support, urgently. That time is over. I have completely detached myself from that expectation. And I hope people like me don't waste and misplace their faith in justice and fairness. This is messed world.
There was a time when I needed the support, urgently. That time is over. I have completely detached myself from that expectation. And I hope people like me don't waste and misplace their faith in justice and fairness. This is messed world.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Miram Was I in your life when you needed it?
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Miram I wasn't here for you for that, and I wasn't here for you during the pedo thing, and I wasn't here for you for any of the many things you've been through.
If you ever need anything at all you please tell me. I won't fail you again.
If you ever need anything at all you please tell me. I won't fail you again.
Miram · 31-35, F
@SinlessOnslaught
I think it is interesting you bring this up
"Pedo thing" because when I look at how others reacted to my situation, it is so drastically similar.
Same type of social dynamics involved.
But honestly I am not holding any grudges over it. And I don't want to remind either of us of old hurt..You have been there for me in plenty of other ways and you're still are there for me. You do enough. I can't be any more grateful for how well you respond to my sharp edges and how much you put into being compassionate and supportive. Just make sure it doesn't come at the expense of your own well being.
I think it is interesting you bring this up
"Pedo thing" because when I look at how others reacted to my situation, it is so drastically similar.
Same type of social dynamics involved.
But honestly I am not holding any grudges over it. And I don't want to remind either of us of old hurt..You have been there for me in plenty of other ways and you're still are there for me. You do enough. I can't be any more grateful for how well you respond to my sharp edges and how much you put into being compassionate and supportive. Just make sure it doesn't come at the expense of your own well being.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Miram
You don't have sharp edges. You have hurt that you respond to naturally.
I will be careful. Still working on not internalizing. I know that you find ways around it and that is encouraging to me.
I think it is interesting you bring this up
"Pedo thing" because when I look at how others reacted to my situation, it is so drastically similar.
Same type of social dynamics involved.
Please tell me what you mean. Is it the framing that you don't like, calling it the "pedo thing"? I understand also that it involved a lot of unappreciated and unresolved effort on your part, as well as children being harmed while people were indifferent to it."Pedo thing" because when I look at how others reacted to my situation, it is so drastically similar.
Same type of social dynamics involved.
You don't have sharp edges. You have hurt that you respond to naturally.
I will be careful. Still working on not internalizing. I know that you find ways around it and that is encouraging to me.
SinlessOnslaught · M
@Miram I understand now. You're not saying anything is wrong with what I said, you're just acknowledging a pattern in the SW community.