If you're an ex-muslim, you really have to be your own and only ally

@Miram Please tell me what you mean. Is it the framing that you don't like, calling it the "pedo thing"? I understand also that it involved a lot of unappreciated and unresolved effort on your part, as well as children being harmed while people were indifferent to it.

You don't have sharp edges. You have hurt that you respond to naturally.

I will be careful. Still working on not internalizing. I know that you find ways around it and that is encouraging to me.

@SinlessOnslaught

Nothing you said here is a problem. I hope you know that.

One day, I hope, we will talk more about why the two situations are similar.

@Miram I understand now. You're not saying anything is wrong with what I said, you're just acknowledging a pattern in the SW community.

@Rokan

I am talking about what ex muslims need to do to create change for themselves. I said that whether they keep it a secret or are outspoken like me, I wouldn't neither encourage nor discourage it. It is their own individual journeys. And both choices can create change in a way.

I think you misunderstood what I meant.

@Miram yes sorry, i thought we were talking about the people who harm others for being muslim or ex muslim.

@Rokan Nah, that's not freedom.