Should I contact the sister of a local crush if maybe her big brother wants to get to know us as friends or like a date? [I Online Dating]
Was wondering if that is stepping too far? :(
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poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@poisonouscupcake I just don't know if that is creepy but online dating is very normal. Haha. I usually like asking the guys out first.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@CuddleClose i do too but sometimes it can be good to get an idea, like if you ask her and she says that he’s seeing someone it might be easier to find out from her rather than him
@poisonouscupcake oh you have a good point! Thank you for the insight!
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I think maybe sending it like this.
Hello Emily,
Sorry to disturb you. You may not know me but I saw your brother's profile. I sent him a message but not sure if he recieved it or if he already found someone of interest.
That is fine too. I would like to connect and get to know him either as friends or maybe even more. That is, if he is interested or not.
I think maybe sending it like this.
Hello Emily,
Sorry to disturb you. You may not know me but I saw your brother's profile. I sent him a message but not sure if he recieved it or if he already found someone of interest.
That is fine too. I would like to connect and get to know him either as friends or maybe even more. That is, if he is interested or not.
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@CuddleClose i say just go for it, there’s no real way to tell if she’ll be okay with it or not but i know in the case of myself at least it would be nice to have my sisters potential spouse to care enough to ask me too🤷🏻♀️