Should I contact the sister of a local crush if maybe her big brother wants to get to know us as friends or like a date? [I Online Dating]

@lost213 I think so too

@LeaDhelani @CosplayMewmiddlemen seem to mess things up.. they might not convey the message properly. Could make a person sound desperate.

@poisonouscupcake oh you have a good point! Thank you for the insight!

@poisonouscupcake

I think maybe sending it like this.

Hello Emily,

Sorry to disturb you. You may not know me but I saw your brother's profile. I sent him a message but not sure if he recieved it or if he already found someone of interest.

That is fine too. I would like to connect and get to know him either as friends or maybe even more. That is, if he is interested or not.

@CosplayMew i say just go for it, there’s no real way to tell if she’ll be okay with it or not but i know in the case of myself at least it would be nice to have my sisters potential spouse to care enough to ask me too🤷🏻‍♀️

@JoePourMan do you think so? :o

@CosplayMew what's the worst that could happen?

@JoePourMan I just don't know if sending her a message wiuld be considered crossing boundaries or creepy