Would you be okay if your boyfriend wants to do bible study with someone who is interested in him?
He told me two weeks ago this woman expressed interest in him. He used to talk to her before me casually as a person of faith, and all of a sudden she popped back up asking if he has someone. , Today she shared a song with him. He then asked me if he could do bible study with her seeing she has questions. It caused him to get alarmed when i told him i needed to think, called off my phone and thought i was going to break up with him. He gave me the impression he wasn't going talking to anyone but ... He did share " some" of their conversation with me and tried to pass it off that she has someone she us interested in. But why would he even continue talking to her? And then now wants to do bible study
"He told me two weeks ago this woman expressed interest in him." Maybe it's just me, but that kind of says it all. If he knows she's interested in him, then why would he want to pursue that and use the excuse for Bible study, knowing it's probably going to bother you, when he supposed to be your boyfriend? Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, but it's definitely scratchy. That's really flirting with danger and asking for it. Why flirt with potential danger? I don't think he would like it if that situation were reversed. I just don't see that as healthy interaction. You don't know what she's up to. That could get out of hand real quick. If it were in person, then yes, you could be present at those times, but this is sneaky in my view, online. It's really risky since he knows she's interested in him anyway and that would really raise doubts as to how far she will go, if she's interested in him. I wouldn't like that at all. I think it's sneaky and disrespectful to you.
I think you should insist that you are also present at this Bible study, I don't find that unreasonable, and if she really just wants to learn about the Bible she shouldn't have a problem with it and either should he.
I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking at here. Who's sending that to whom? In any case, why couldn't you be involved? Nothing wrong with taking that opportunity to breathe down his(her/their neck(s)
