Have you ever actually found out the reason someone didn't like you romantically?

I've been asked before and found it quite annoying as it was obvious. I mean when they have expressed a major physical attraction but then not really been drawn in properly. I get that my personality is a bit fiery but even before that he wasn't interested properly even though he claims to be looking for a relationship.

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ViciDraco · 41-45, M

I'm the stable but boring type in a world where a lot of people just want to have fun.

I have been left on one occasion because I was a "good person" and it made them feel guilty about who they were.

But the majority I think were just bored of me. Didn't help it was mostly long distance.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@ViciDraco I had a friend who left a good guy, because they "couldn't be bothered" they then went on to date a right **** and regretted it.

ViciDraco · 41-45, M

@PaleandPolluted I've had people who are still in contact with said person tell me she later realized and regretted her choice. A folly of youth.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

@ViciDraco I've never really had a proper good guy who didnt do anything too annoying so im not familiar with that situation