Is there any difference between the text content of the email you send to your gfs in your 20s from in your 30s?
What's the difference?
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
30's - didn't date or have any girlfriends as I was in LTR number 1 from 1997 until 2012. My now adult kids are from that.
20's - basically a trainwreck with no women or any dating until mid-20's.
40's - lets forget that part as it's when LTR number 2 happened (only good thing was my daughter happened - rest was a disaster).
50's - it's just impossible as mature women in their 40's and esp in their 50's are ultra-selfish and can't tolerate differences or strong-willed men.
As for language used, I never really understood how to date/woo/seduce women and if I did still have records of messaging from my 20's and 30's it would be similar to now.
20's - basically a trainwreck with no women or any dating until mid-20's.
40's - lets forget that part as it's when LTR number 2 happened (only good thing was my daughter happened - rest was a disaster).
50's - it's just impossible as mature women in their 40's and esp in their 50's are ultra-selfish and can't tolerate differences or strong-willed men.
As for language used, I never really understood how to date/woo/seduce women and if I did still have records of messaging from my 20's and 30's it would be similar to now.
SW-User
@zonavar68 Similar in content? No extra fire inside you in your mid 20s? Like you are now all the same? No change in the words?
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@SW-User My views on women and dating have not really changed, but I trust women a whole lot less so if anything I'm far more gauged, reserved, and limiting on what I say. But the intent is always the same - to discover the real person and it's almost never about or focusing on sex/intimacy/romance stuff.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
No, I had the same partner basically that whole time and we were like an old married couple from the start.
He doesn't really use email and didn't get off the pay per text train until mid 30s so I never text him bc we were on the same phone plan.
He doesn't really use email and didn't get off the pay per text train until mid 30s so I never text him bc we were on the same phone plan.
TeirdalinFirefall · 31-35, M
People still use email outside of business?
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Ehhh... it's all a trainwreck either way.
Max41 · 26-30, M
Whichever makes you a sexy woman . Can message a 40 yr old girl as well .
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Max41 I can't approach women much younger as I'd get accused of being a sexual predator because I'm a man in my 50's. That's a core problem - women can approach other women and nobody cares but if men approach other women there's a whole encylopedia of expected protocols and behaviours to conform to.
MoonaNorth86 · 36-40, F
The difference is you haven’t put a ring on it for 10 years that’s the difference
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@MoonaNorth86 My parents divorced when I was 12 and my sister was 8 in 1980. that cemented the view for me that marriage is a sham.
SW-User
@zonavar68 Now you got to the point.
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