30's - didn't date or have any girlfriends as I was in LTR number 1 from 1997 until 2012. My now adult kids are from that.
20's - basically a trainwreck with no women or any dating until mid-20's.
40's - lets forget that part as it's when LTR number 2 happened (only good thing was my daughter happened - rest was a disaster).
50's - it's just impossible as mature women in their 40's and esp in their 50's are ultra-selfish and can't tolerate differences or strong-willed men.
As for language used, I never really understood how to date/woo/seduce women and if I did still have records of messaging from my 20's and 30's it would be similar to now.
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@zonavar68 Similar in content? No extra fire inside you in your mid 20s? Like you are now all the same? No change in the words?
@SW-User My views on women and dating have not really changed, but I trust women a whole lot less so if anything I'm far more gauged, reserved, and limiting on what I say. But the intent is always the same - to discover the real person and it's almost never about or focusing on sex/intimacy/romance stuff.
@Max41 I can't approach women much younger as I'd get accused of being a sexual predator because I'm a man in my 50's. That's a core problem - women can approach other women and nobody cares but if men approach other women there's a whole encylopedia of expected protocols and behaviours to conform to.
@zonavar68 If you are a leader or a preacher then even young girls may like you . If young guy has handsomeness to attract women , old guy has maturity and goodness too .