Don't want to hear you complain about your abusive relationship if you're going back to the trash the very next day

In spite of having plenty of options, but they are "hard"..Lying to yourself over and over again and choosing familiar misery. You don't have to be my problem. It is a waste of my empathy and energy.

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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Ouch. It can be very confusing and difficult to break out of abuse. You never know what puts someone in that mindset, you don't know what they aren't telling you. I hid mine from everyone. I was scared, confused. Not saying it deserves to be coddled, but I will always have empathy for people stuck in abuse. I know how it feels and the more people that ditch you, the more you cling to the toxicity.

Miram · 31-35, F

@ScreamingFox

Again, same comment I replied to with AntiSocialTroll.

Your situation is not every situation. And that's not what my vent is about.

I am doing the right thing for myself.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Miram you have every right to do the right thing for yourself. You can't save everyone, I get it.

In saying that, people are going to react to strong words like this. People that have been hurt. It's a reaction, we all have them.

And such a topic in a place like this will illicit a reaction.