Just a random thought

I couldn't sleep so I was reading *very* bad erotica. In it, she was participating in a bondage scene and talking about how the scene was going to finally make her into a true submissive.

Why do you think people still think that bondage = D/s? And how on earth will kink turn her into a submissive?

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sfish007 · 61-69, M

a great comment.. nothing tarnished D/s like the horrible movies of 50 shades of grey. One is either dominant or submissive - one cannot be "made" to be either.. Plus it sends a crappy message that with enough of something (leverage or whatever" that one will submit. a good dominant draws out the submissive in a person by their strength and confidence.. a submissive is one who is strong, but chooses to give up control. A dominant will cherish that, and prove he deserves it..