Show me an actual alpha male, not some guy claiming to be

Not true. I'm sure some girls do like nice guys, but many girls go after the Chads, Tyrones, Pookies, Ray-Rays, etc. No guy who calls himself an alpha male ever actually says they are, though btw. If a guy says he is, chances are he isn't. Someone who claims to be something chances are are not what they referred to themselves as. It's like when someone calls themselves funny, chances are only that person finds themselves funny. I know a girl who my whole life knowing her, she would date Tyrones, they'd all cheat on her and lie to her, use her, etc. Guys that have been to jail and whatnot. She never learned. She dated a guy who treated her like a human being once, and quickly dumped him because he was "too boring" for her. Because he didn't treat her like garbage. The women I know personally who even admit that man women love dating guys who are like that, even they have said to me they have no clue why those women go for guys like that. So to say girls don't like alphas, that's false, but not all women are the same, so of course some women out there like nice dudes who treat them like human beings. They're getting harder and harder to find, though.

Hmm

i am an alpha female and i most def like alpha males. my brother is the nicest guy in the world and the women walk all over him

Every person is different.